I just tried and it still doesn't work, heres the list of all the things i've tried
-delete and reinstall minecraft
-make another .minecraft
-reinstall all mods
-Changed Xmx4096x -> Xmx7520x
-uninstall & reinstall Java
-Deleted a few mods
Please I really wanna play this server with my friends.
Yeah, I actually ordered a new card and 16gb more ram, it should be here soon. I know about the hardware end of things, I was meaning if there were software style tweaks. I'm a pretty basic end user as far as modding is concerned, I download the pack, sometimes there are certain QoL mods I add no matter what, and I occasionally edit the configs to my preferences (I don't mind work, but this is my free time so I'd like the grind to not feel too much like a job). I know basically nothing about performance enhancements, or the like.