ok your question was a light bulb moment.
I was trying to run a modpack and it kept giving me the error as mentions above. I thought it must have been forge as that was the only thing that was running along side minecraft. Well I was also running the pack with curseforge. So, I just ran the pack with just using forge and the pack loaded.
So my crashes are due to something with curseforge, I think, and I don't know if theses forums handle curseforge stuff.