ok i got this working now i think one of my mods at the version it was at just wasnt compatible with the more recent neoforge versions so i just updated all my mods and hoped for the best and it worked
i dont believe this is the issue because it was happening before i even added the mod
but as a side note i did update it before i launched to make this log so i have no clue why it showed up again (i just tried launching again and that line wasnt in the log)