Most likely, this is no longer relevant for you, but I will still leave my answer, because I had the same problem, and I did not find a clear answer anywhere. To ensure your server players have the quests you created, all you need to do is transfer the necessary files to the server. Players don't need to install anything on their end, except for mod. You need to find .minecraft>config>ftbquests>quests. In quests should be folder and two files. So all you need to do is use existing ones or create folders config>ftbquests>quests, and copy the contents of the quests folder.