I have made sure to install Forge, Optifine, and any other mods on the host server.  The game works in singleplayer just fine.  I updated the video card drivers for the computer that crashes and also Java.  Here is the error report: 
  
      Minecraft has crashed!       
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Minecraft has stopped running because it encountered a problem; Unexpected error 
This error has been saved to C:\Documents and Settings\Deanna\Application Data\.minecraft\crash-reports\crash-2012-09-29_08.53.10-client.txt for your convenience. Please include a copy of this file if you report this crash to anyone. 
  
  
  
--- BEGIN ERROR REPORT 9b31543 -------- 
Generated 9/29/12 8:53 AM 
  
- Minecraft Version: 1.3.2 
- Operating System: Windows XP (x86) version 5.1 
- Java Version: 1.7.0_07, Oracle Corporation 
- Java VM Version: Java HotSpot Client VM (mixed mode), Oracle Corporation 
- Memory: 454482104 bytes (433 MB) / 519110656 bytes (495 MB) up to 1037959168 bytes (989 MB) 
- JVM Flags: 2 total; -Xms512m -Xmx1024m 
- LWJGL: 2.4.2 
- OpenGL: Intel 945GM GL version 1.4.0 - Build 7.14.10.4926, Intel 
- Is Modded: Definitely; 'forge,fml' 
- Type: Client 
- Texture Pack: Steelfeathers Enchanted Pack_v1.4.zip 
- Profiler Position: N/A (disabled) 
  
java.lang.NullPointerException 
	at cpw.mods.fml.common.network.FMLNetworkHandler.bindNetworkId(FMLNetworkHandler.java:261) 
	at cpw.mods.fml.common.network.ModIdentifiersPacket.execute(ModIdentifiersPacket.java:67) 
	at cpw.mods.fml.common.network.FMLNetworkHandler.handleFMLPacket(FMLNetworkHandler.java:89) 
	at cpw.mods.fml.common.network.FMLNetworkHandler.handlePacket250Packet(FMLNetworkHandler.java:59) 
	at asv.a(NetClientHandler.java:1288) 
	at ce.a(SourceFile:56) 
	at bb.b(TcpConnection.java:438) 
	at asv.d(NetClientHandler.java:99) 
	at asy.c(SourceFile:69) 
	at net.minecraft.client.Minecraft.l(Minecraft.java:1484) 
	at net.minecraft.client.Minecraft.J(Minecraft.java:831) 
	at net.minecraft.client.Minecraft.run(Minecraft.java:761) 
	at java.lang.Thread.run(Unknown Source) 
--- END ERROR REPORT fdd63d71 ----------