cannot connect at all

[FortifiedDestiny]

I am running a 1.16.5 36.2.20 minecraft server on forge with 2 mods but when I try to connect, the screen is stuck on "Connecting to server" and it doesnt even time me out, like it will just stay on that screen forever and if I try to click cancel it crashes my game without report. Also in console it says I have been disconnected. This server is being run on my pc and I cant connect to it with localhost or external and internal ip.

Log: https://pastebin.com/M2DDaqtS

 

Edited January 8, 2022 by FortifiedDestiny

[FortifiedDestiny]

cuz my friend is cracked, can that be the issue?

edit: tried enabling online mode, it did get further than before but now it is stuck on encrypting. new log: https://pastebin.com/bZRnhDzZ

 

Edited January 8, 2022 by FortifiedDestiny