Essentially title - I'm trying to figure out how to do a modded Minecraft server for the first time and I have basically completed the whole process except for actually playing the game:

My mods are (i think) load in and I'm in the world, but nothing is craftable or even available, every item says that "there is no item with this name" 

I've attempted to get some info from other forums but they seem to not really help; Heres the logs and mods list that I have (I suspect its something to do with NEI?)

 

Latest Server Log: 

[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Starting minecraft server version 1.12.2
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Loading properties
[17:19:29] [Server console handler/ERROR]: Exception handling console input
java.io.IOException: The handle is invalid
    at java.io.FileInputStream.readBytes(Native Method) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.FileInputStream.read(FileInputStream.java:293) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedInputStream.read1(BufferedInputStream.java:311) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedInputStream.implRead(BufferedInputStream.java:386) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedInputStream.read(BufferedInputStream.java:365) ~[?:?]
    at sun.nio.cs.StreamDecoder.readBytes(StreamDecoder.java:333) ~[?:?]
    at sun.nio.cs.StreamDecoder.implRead(StreamDecoder.java:376) ~[?:?]
    at sun.nio.cs.StreamDecoder.lockedRead(StreamDecoder.java:219) ~[?:?]
    at sun.nio.cs.StreamDecoder.read(StreamDecoder.java:173) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.InputStreamReader.read(InputStreamReader.java:189) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedReader.fill(BufferedReader.java:161) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedReader.implReadLine(BufferedReader.java:371) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedReader.readLine(BufferedReader.java:348) ~[?:?]
    at java.io.BufferedReader.readLine(BufferedReader.java:437) ~[?:?]
    at nz$2.run(SourceFile:100) [minecraft_server.1.12.2.jar:?]
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Default game type: SURVIVAL
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Generating keypair
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Starting Minecraft server on 192.168.0.12:25565
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Using default channel type
[17:19:29] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing level "world"
[17:19:30] [Server thread/INFO]: Loaded 488 advancements
[17:19:30] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing start region for level 0
[17:19:31] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing spawn area: 10%
[17:19:32] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing spawn area: 27%
[17:19:33] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing spawn area: 46%
[17:19:34] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing spawn area: 66%
[17:19:35] [Server thread/INFO]: Preparing spawn area: 83%
[17:19:36] [Server thread/INFO]: Done (6.873s)! For help, type "help" or "?"
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Stopping the server
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Stopping server
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Saving players
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Saving worlds
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Saving chunks for level 'world'/overworld
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Saving chunks for level 'world'/the_nether
[17:21:02] [Server thread/INFO]: Saving chunks for level 'world'/the_end
[17:21:03] [Server Shutdown Thread/INFO]: Stopping server
[17:21:03] [Server Shutdown Thread/INFO]: Saving players
 

 

Heres the Mod-List: 

https://imgur.com/rjD4eEo

I've realised this is a vanilla server, but I am still having trouble figuring out why my forge server wont load - I click the forge file and nothing loads

 

I have fixed the issue.