[SOLVED] FTB Infinity Evolved Server Kick

[loadedguitars]

SOLVED: for my case, i started using hamachi on my mac to host my server, and i no longer get kicked. So i can have my main pc connect to my mac on hamachi, and then i can connect my main pc mc to mac's server, no problems

 

I started my own infinity evolved server for me and my friends to play, but im barely physically able to run both the server and client on one machine. (~95% ram usage) So i decided to move the server to my mac and now i get kicked at random times. It only happens to me, my friends can play fine. however, when my friend came over and we put the server on the mac again, he got kicked at the exact same time, same error as well. ive tried dialing firewalls on both pc's and router, nothing. I even get kicked when i dont move once after logging in. same thing happens when i move server to laptop, but the server will run fine when on main pc (even when friend is over).

 

heres the log:

 

[10:11:28] [Netty Client IO #7/ERROR] [FML]: NetworkDispatcher exception

java.io.IOException: An existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host

at sun.nio.ch.SocketDispatcher.read0(Native Method) ~[?:1.8.0_25]

at sun.nio.ch.SocketDispatcher.read(SocketDispatcher.java:43) ~[?:1.8.0_25]

at sun.nio.ch.IOUtil.readIntoNativeBuffer(IOUtil.java:223) ~[?:1.8.0_25]

at sun.nio.ch.IOUtil.read(IOUtil.java:192) ~[?:1.8.0_25]

at sun.nio.ch.SocketChannelImpl.read(SocketChannelImpl.java:379) ~[?:1.8.0_25]

at io.netty.buffer.UnpooledUnsafeDirectByteBuf.setBytes(UnpooledUnsafeDirectByteBuf.java:436) ~[unpooledUnsafeDirectByteBuf.class:?]

at io.netty.buffer.AbstractByteBuf.writeBytes(AbstractByteBuf.java:870) ~[AbstractByteBuf.class:?]

at io.netty.channel.socket.nio.NioSocketChannel.doReadBytes(NioSocketChannel.java:208) ~[NioSocketChannel.class:?]

at io.netty.channel.nio.AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.read(AbstractNioByteChannel.java:87) [AbstractNioByteChannel$NioByteUnsafe.class:?]

at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKey(NioEventLoop.java:480) [NioEventLoop.class:?]

at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.processSelectedKeysOptimized(NioEventLoop.java:447) [NioEventLoop.class:?]

at io.netty.channel.nio.NioEventLoop.run(NioEventLoop.java:341) [NioEventLoop.class:?]

at io.netty.util.concurrent.SingleThreadEventExecutor$2.run(SingleThreadEventExecutor.java:101) [singleThreadEventExecutor$2.class:?]

at java.lang.Thread.run(Thread.java:745) [?:1.8.0_25]

[10:11:28] [Netty Client IO #7/INFO] [THAUMCRAFT]: Restoring client configs.

[10:11:28] [Netty Client IO #7/INFO] [EnderCore]: Reset configs to client values for com.enderio.core.common.config.ConfigHandler

[10:11:28] [Netty Client IO #7/INFO] [mcjty.lib.varia.Logging]: Disconnect from server: Unregistering RFTools dimensions

[10:11:28] [Netty Client IO #7/INFO] [simplyjetpacks]: Loading configuration files

[10:11:28] [Client thread/INFO] [journeymap]: Mapping halted in C:\Users\Leon\Documents\Curse\Minecraft\Instances\FTB Infinity Evolved\journeymap\data\mp\Minecraft~Server\DIM0

[10:11:28] [Client thread/INFO] [FML]: Applying holder lookups

[10:11:28] [Client thread/INFO] [FML]: Holder lookups applied

 

 

sometimes its netty client io #1 or #0 error.

im completely lost, any help is appreciated