Do you also have an integrated AMD/ATI GPU?
If yes, check for updated and make sure Java is running via Nvidia GPU
https://windowsreport.com/minecraft-not-using-gpu/
In your Launcher, go to Installations, edit your profile and click on More Options
There you will find the JVM Arguments
Click into this line and go to the end of it - press space bar and paste
-Dfml.earlyprogresswindow=false
# Problematic frame:
# V [jvm.dll+0x30936a
The error refers to Java - so something is preventing Java from working - this can be caused by the system or the modpack
Sodium is mentioned - make a test without Sodium/Iris or Embeddium/Rubidium and Oculus
mousetweaks is a client-side-only mod
Remove it from your server, keep it in your client
If there are further issues, add the new crash-report with sites like
https://mclo.gs/
Maybe there are more client side mods