friends cant join my forge server but i can

[woolspeet]

while i can join the server using both the localip and the external ip my friends cant join the server 
it gives them this error

im pretty sure i did everything correctly and i went over it 3 times so if anyone can help me....
also its a modded server with 40 modes if it changes anything 

[woolspeet]

im pretty sure that the debug.log is this

but when i try to post it here it gives me error code -200

 

and im hosting the server on my computer 

Edited June 5, 2021 by woolspeet

[woolspeet]

i mad a port forwarding rules in my router and that was the first thing i looked at when my friends couldn't join the server and from all the guides i saw im about 90% sure its not that 

debug.log

Edited June 5, 2021 by woolspeet

[woolspeet]

1 minute ago, diesieben07 said:

Have you set an IP in the server.properties? If so: Don't.

i changed it back now 

[woolspeet]

9 minutes ago, diesieben07 said:

Have you set an IP in the server.properties? If so: Don't.

it still doesn't work 😧

[woolspeet]

2 minutes ago, diesieben07 said:

And you gave them your public IP address, right?

yes i have 

[woolspeet]

1 minute ago, diesieben07 said:

Then something is broken about your port forwarding, which we can't really help you with here.

do you know where i can get help with that? because i went over it again now and i still cant see anything wrong wtih it