1.20.1 Friend's game crashing when joining my server, using same mods as me, even if I join with no issues

[Oofster]

LOG: https://mclo.gs/8iKyww8
Me and my friend are doing a Create play-through, and he cannot join my server, even though I joined with the same mods as him with no problems.
I appreciate any help.

[TileEntity]

Make a test without the mod Destroy

 

[Oofster]

We both joined successfully, although I do want to clarify that it worked before when we both had Destroy installed. 
I still would like to play with it installed, I'm just unsure of why now it's an issue that's causing my friend's game to crash, despite it working before.

[TileEntity]

It just runs into an issue or conflict with another mod

 

Maybe the xaero mods or embeddium/oculus

[Oofster]

Okay so, I turned Destroy back on in the server and game, and now it works again for some reason?
Whatever the case, it seems solved now so, thank you.