I cannot install mods on any loader

[Jeebus554]

I cannot seem to install any mods using curse forge or prism. nothing Ido will attach to minecraft. I keep getting several different error messages from curseform and some from prism as well. Ive tried changing my dns, uninstalling and reistalling both loaders, uninstalling and reinstalling minecraft, uninstalling and reinstalling windows, repairing installation, as well as several other things. Im genuinely at a loss for words and have no clue what to do. curse forge worked just fine on my old setup, but I did make a bunch of large upgrades to my setup a week ago, so I dont know if that has anything to do with it. If anybody can help me thatd be great.

here are the errors and when i get them.

prism: error while creating new instance: one or more tasks failed
curseforge when downloading from browser: no connection could be made because the target machine actively refused it 68.105.28.18:443
                    the request was aborted: could not create ssl/tls secure channel
curseforge when importing a mod zip: exception of type 'curse.radium.install management.installtaskfailedexception' was thrown.
                    failed downloading forge modloader.