I've pondered this issue too, and for now, I am content to spread my gaming time a bit more broadly. I tried Skyrim SE (The Elder Scrolls) for the first time, a week or so ago. Interesting to me, that game ALSO has a bit of diversity in how people mod it and run it. Several different "mod organizers" are in use in that gaming tribe. Like @vpontin, I am mostly happy to continue on 1.12 Minecraft games while we wait for a new Forge update. (My two young grandsons casually play 1.13, but they are not seriously doing a lot there, so I get a glimpse when I visit them, of the updates. )
I do admit that checking on the status of work on Forge keeps me looking in here, and staying abreast of things MineCraft!
Neither game is all that bad played Vanilla, IMO. However, both do look a lot nicer with mods and some of the things mods can let a player try, are worth the wait.