that was a helpful response lex. so to answer. im not sure what you would wish to know?
im running yes on a home machine before i head to a VPS server. The machine itself never goes into sleep mode. its a x64 Win 8 16 gigs ram computer with no firewall / security stuff when the server is online. I have all ports forwarded. canyouseeme.org is showing the port ip is open and visible. I am just not sure what in the network settings would cause it to go afk. because if i stay online my character and leave for the entire day the server still allows connectivity but as soon as my character disconnects its a no go.
IF there is something you need to know. like a file of some sorts ill find it and post it. but as of this point i know nothing of which would cause this issue.
my computers themselves i have about 6 in the house and 3 of them are on all time with no modes in which any processes or CPU can idle due to no one being at the machine itself.