Try deleting C:\Users\Norman\AppData\Roaming\.minecraft\libraries\net\minecraftforge\forge\1.16.4-35.1.4\ and reinstalling that version of Forge, or try a newer version.
Your mod ID needs to match the Regex pattern described in this error, which can be broken down as follows:
first character needs to be a lowercase letter, followed by between 1 and 63 characters that can be lowercase letters, numerical digits, underscore, and hyphen.
Delete C:\Users\lawat\AppData\Local\Temp\forge_installer8667655478790341714 and C:\Users\lawat\AppData\Roaming\.minecraft\libraries\net\minecraft\client and try again.
First that's not how you run a Forge server, that file starts a vanilla server.
Second, try running the jar manually via the command line and see if it spits out any errors.