This is caused by you either screwing up the install, or not running the server correctly.
The issue is that java can not find the vanilla server jar file.
It needs to be in the same directory as you run the server, named exactly how vanilla names the jar file.
Which is why, that is exactly what the installer does.
There isn't much we can do about it but ask you for more information.
If you followed instructions on installing, and ran the server normally it will work.
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